Comments for Living With Alcoholism In A Marriage http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net Wed, 10 Mar 2010 12:14:59 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 Comment on I married the same man twice he is an alcoholic and treats me bad should I stay with him.? by matt0424 http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him/comment-page-1#comment-3322 matt0424 Wed, 10 Mar 2010 12:14:59 +0000 http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him#comment-3322 of course not!!!!!!!!<br><b>References : </b><br> of course not!!!!!!!!
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]]> Comment on I married the same man twice he is an alcoholic and treats me bad should I stay with him.? by shadie_angel http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him/comment-page-1#comment-3321 shadie_angel Wed, 10 Mar 2010 11:25:59 +0000 http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him#comment-3321 I just read the first few lines and I say get the hell out of there!!! You do not deserve to be beaten no matter what you did. Just because he's the father of your children does not make you a personal punching bag. Emotional beatings are just as bad as physical beatings...Your kids do not deserve to live that way either. My husband used to talk down to me and I told him that if he ever does that again he will be divorced and me and our daughter will be gone before he can say one word. I refuse to have him talk down to me in front of my daughter. You don't want your kids talking to their husbands/wives later on do you?? You just need to get out.<br><b>References : </b><br> I just read the first few lines and I say get the hell out of there!!! You do not deserve to be beaten no matter what you did. Just because he’s the father of your children does not make you a personal punching bag. Emotional beatings are just as bad as physical beatings…Your kids do not deserve to live that way either. My husband used to talk down to me and I told him that if he ever does that again he will be divorced and me and our daughter will be gone before he can say one word. I refuse to have him talk down to me in front of my daughter. You don’t want your kids talking to their husbands/wives later on do you?? You just need to get out.
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]]> Comment on I married the same man twice he is an alcoholic and treats me bad should I stay with him.? by psychedelic http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him/comment-page-1#comment-3320 psychedelic Wed, 10 Mar 2010 11:12:59 +0000 http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him#comment-3320 please, no! save yourself, and your kids, please...i beg you.<br><b>References : </b><br> please, no! save yourself, and your kids, please…i beg you.
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]]> Comment on I married the same man twice he is an alcoholic and treats me bad should I stay with him.? by kitty1256 http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him/comment-page-1#comment-3319 kitty1256 Wed, 10 Mar 2010 10:40:59 +0000 http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him#comment-3319 One word: no.<br><b>References : </b><br> One word: no.
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]]> Comment on I married the same man twice he is an alcoholic and treats me bad should I stay with him.? by his best girl http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him/comment-page-1#comment-3318 his best girl Wed, 10 Mar 2010 09:54:59 +0000 http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him#comment-3318 The cycle of abuse and the choice of being with the abusers needs to be broken. You will never be able to change another person by any means. No amount of love or ultimatums will do it. Since he is sick in several different ways, it comes down to him needing some serious intervention so that he can get the mental and physical help he needs. It seems like you stay because one day you are truly hoping that he will change because he loves you enough, but he won't. if you really love him and don't want him out of your life completely because of the kids, then just be his friend and be there for him if he can accept those terms.<br><b>References : </b><br> The cycle of abuse and the choice of being with the abusers needs to be broken. You will never be able to change another person by any means. No amount of love or ultimatums will do it. Since he is sick in several different ways, it comes down to him needing some serious intervention so that he can get the mental and physical help he needs. It seems like you stay because one day you are truly hoping that he will change because he loves you enough, but he won’t. if you really love him and don’t want him out of your life completely because of the kids, then just be his friend and be there for him if he can accept those terms.
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]]> Comment on I married the same man twice he is an alcoholic and treats me bad should I stay with him.? by Grumpy http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him/comment-page-1#comment-3317 Grumpy Wed, 10 Mar 2010 09:13:59 +0000 http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him#comment-3317 I hope you at least have life insurance on him. Who are you? Are you a gluten for punishment? I know it took alot of guts to put this down on here, so maybe you have the guts to get yourself some help. You need to find out why you're acting as his mother, punching bag etc. I'm sure your a really nice person, prob. someone who does not party. Just some woman who needs to be a caregiver and really believes that she can make a few peeps lives better. I think you should think about yourself here and start making your life better. If you dont do it for yourself do it for your children so that maybe they can find strength in you. I'm almost positive your children will need you more or already do. Good luck to you.<br><b>References : </b><br> I hope you at least have life insurance on him. Who are you? Are you a gluten for punishment? I know it took alot of guts to put this down on here, so maybe you have the guts to get yourself some help. You need to find out why you’re acting as his mother, punching bag etc.
I’m sure your a really nice person, prob. someone who does not party. Just some woman who needs to be a caregiver and really believes that she can make a few peeps lives better. I think you should think about yourself here and start making your life better. If you dont do it for yourself do it for your children so that maybe they can find strength in you. I’m almost positive your children will need you more or already do. Good luck to you.
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]]> Comment on I married the same man twice he is an alcoholic and treats me bad should I stay with him.? by rock442002 http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him/comment-page-1#comment-3316 rock442002 Wed, 10 Mar 2010 08:33:59 +0000 http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him#comment-3316 Look you have been through it twice. Know one should have to go through it at all. If he beat you before there is a good chance it will happen again. FIND SOME ONE ELSE<br><b>References : </b><br> Look you have been through it twice. Know one should have to go through it at all. If he beat you before there is a good chance it will happen again. FIND SOME ONE ELSE
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]]> Comment on I married the same man twice he is an alcoholic and treats me bad should I stay with him.? by iyamacog http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him/comment-page-1#comment-3315 iyamacog Wed, 10 Mar 2010 08:24:59 +0000 http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him#comment-3315 You should seek some counseling to boost your self esteem above his level. You're merely his whipping post. If you're real lucky, he could drop dead. He's a lost cause. And you're able to do enough for him. Because he's unable to do anything for himself. Concentrate on your children, they need you.<br><b>References : </b><br> You should seek some counseling to boost your self esteem above his level. You’re merely his whipping post. If you’re real lucky, he could drop dead.
He’s a lost cause. And you’re able to do enough for him. Because he’s unable to do anything for himself.
Concentrate on your children, they need you.
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]]> Comment on I married the same man twice he is an alcoholic and treats me bad should I stay with him.? by kitties_n_llamas(Becca) http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him/comment-page-1#comment-3314 kitties_n_llamas(Becca) Wed, 10 Mar 2010 08:01:59 +0000 http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him#comment-3314 (In advance sorry for language) HELL NO! This guy is an jerky a$$ who needs to be put in JAIL! He's a sick pig who doesn't deserve a person who would give him a second(or third) GLANCE! There's a guy out there for you, but I swear on all that is good in the world, IT'S NOT HIM! You need to get a divorce and fast! People can go to jail for that, and I don't care how simpathetic you are for him, he's a jerk, and nothing more than that! :( Your guy is out there somewhere, don't deal with that crap, and go live YOUR LIFE! I'm sorry that happened, you deserve more.<br><b>References : </b><br>A girl who knows what she is talking about! (In advance sorry for language)

HELL NO!

This guy is an jerky a$$ who needs to be put in JAIL! He’s a sick pig who doesn’t deserve a person who would give him a second(or third) GLANCE!

There’s a guy out there for you, but I swear on all that is good in the world, IT’S NOT HIM!

You need to get a divorce and fast! People can go to jail for that, and I don’t care how simpathetic you are for him, he’s a jerk, and nothing more than that! :(

Your guy is out there somewhere, don’t deal with that crap, and go live YOUR LIFE!

I’m sorry that happened, you deserve more.
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]]> Comment on I married the same man twice he is an alcoholic and treats me bad should I stay with him.? by c83965905g http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him/comment-page-1#comment-3313 c83965905g Wed, 10 Mar 2010 07:11:59 +0000 http://www.alcoholismmarriage.net/married-to-an-alcoholic/i-married-the-same-man-twice-he-is-an-alcoholic-and-treats-me-bad-should-i-stay-with-him#comment-3313 I am 50+ years old and I am proud of the fact that I never his a woman. I can see giving him ONE chance. You should have left that less than a man long ago.<br><b>References : </b><br> I am 50+ years old and I am proud of the fact that I never his a woman. I can see giving him ONE chance. You should have left that less than a man long ago.
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